I've had exactly this conversation more than once: a couple is under contract on a new build, sometimes months from closing, and then the marriage ends before the house does. Nobody plans for that timing, and builder contracts genuinely don't account for it either — a builder's paperwork is written to protect the builder from a buyer backing out, not to sort out what happens between two buyers who are no longer a "we."
Start With Whose Name Is on the Contract
If both spouses signed the builder contract, you're both bound to it regardless of what's happening in the divorce — the builder isn't a party to your marriage, and they're not going to release one spouse from the agreement just because the relationship ended. If only one spouse signed, that spouse is the one legally obligated to the builder, but the house itself may still be community property depending on when the contract was signed and what funds are paying for it.
Community Property Doesn't Care Whose Name Is on It
Texas is a community property state, which means property and earnings acquired during the marriage are presumed to belong to both spouses jointly — it makes no difference whose income is funding the down payment or whose name is on the contract. If the earnest money and construction draws are coming from funds earned during the marriage, the house is very likely community property regardless of signature lines. The date the earnest money contract was signed is generally treated as the date title interest began, which matters if there's any argument about separate versus community property timing.
The Earnest Money and Deposit Question
This is where things get genuinely stressful, because builder contracts are usually written so the builder keeps deposits and earnest money if the buyer cancels — and "buyer" doesn't distinguish between "we changed our minds" and "we're getting divorced." Before you assume you can simply walk away and get your money back, get the actual contract language reviewed. Some builder agreements allow assignment of the contract to one spouse continuing alone, which can preserve the deposit and avoid a forfeiture fight, but that requires builder cooperation and isn't automatic.
Three Realistic Paths Forward
One spouse keeps the contract and the house. If one spouse wants to move forward and can qualify for the mortgage independently, the contract can sometimes be assigned or the closing structured so that spouse takes title alone, often with an offsetting award of other marital assets to the other spouse in the divorce settlement.
Both spouses proceed to closing, then sell. In some situations it's actually cheaper to close as planned — preserving the deposit and avoiding builder penalties — and then list and sell the completed home as part of the divorce property division, splitting proceeds per the settlement.
The contract gets terminated. If neither spouse wants or can afford the home alone, termination is sometimes the only real option, but get very clear, in writing, on what portion of the deposit and any construction draws already spent are recoverable before you go this route. This is exactly the kind of clause a construction attorney should review rather than assuming the builder will simply refund everything.
Talk to Your Builder's Sales Team Directly, But Carefully
Builders have seen this before, even if it feels unprecedented to you. Some are willing to work with a contract amendment or assignment rather than a full cancellation, especially if the community is still actively selling and they'd rather keep the sale moving than restart the whole process. That said, anything you agree to verbally should be confirmed in writing before you assume it's settled — a builder's sales representative isn't your advocate in this situation, however friendly the conversation feels.
The Timing Question That Matters Most
If you're mid-divorce and considering starting a new construction contract at all — whether solo or with a new partner — loop in your divorce attorney before you sign anything. A pending divorce can affect your ability to qualify for financing independently, and depending on where you are in the process, a new contract signed before the divorce is finalized can itself become a community property question down the line.
Talk to Fay
Navigating a new construction contract during a divorce, or trying to figure out whether to close, assign, or terminate? I've walked clients through all three, and I'd rather help you sort out the real options than have you guess.
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